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Thursday, February 23, 2012

I'm Back And In A Bad Place

It has been nine months since I last posted, at that time I was full of plans and dreams about how successful I was going to be in my new venture.
All of my savings and superannuation money went into making sure that our Restaurant was going to be a wonderfully friendly place to eat, so we sourced the best ingredients, re-employed most of the old staff and opened on the 6th of July 2011.
My Sister was going to learn all she could from our new Chef and so we employed her on a part time basis only, this Woman knew her way round Italian food and her menus and meals were mouthwatering. she did not come cheap, but as we were going to give her few hours we thought we could afford her.
Who would have thought that after a week my sister would have decided that she did not want to work in a hot sweaty kitchen and followed that up 3 weeks later by going back to her husband. Leaving me to run the Restaurant single handed.
It was all downhill from there, our wage bill grew and grew at a quicker rate than our customers and it soon became appparent to me that this venture that I had sunk everything into was doomed to failure.
And so we closed down on Christmas Eve, I am heartbroken jobless and in more debt now than I have ever been.
Obviously there is a lot more to this story and I will fill in some blanks as I blog.
I have had a quick look through some of my favourite blogs and it's great to see the success you are all still making of your financial journeys, unfortunately I can not respond to all your posts as they have changed some of the comment formats and I havent managed to get my head round them yet, still I am out there lurking.

20 comments:

  1. Hi Maureen,
    Thought I would check out some of Jane's community of bloggers and started with you. Sorry to hear about the restaurant and your broken heart.

    I am curious to hear about all the successes you have had over the years. Our life is not about what went wrong but what worked.

    Sending you lots of love and embrace as you move through this difficult patch on your journey.

    Please start noticing what you have and appreciating that, it might be minimal, start with that. Life is not what we lost but what we find right in front of our eyes.

    I am reading this amazing book presently called The Soul of Money by Lynne Twist. See if you can get a hold of it and read it. Love to hear what you think about the book when you are done. My email is mgandhid@live.ca

    I appreciate reading your story and I know you will find the courage and strength to carry on.
    Cheers.
    Michael Duhaney

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    1. Thanks Michael, I'm not sure about the book as I have so much happening in my life just now, but thanks for the words of encouragement

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  2. Oh Maureen, this breaks my heart :( i was really hoping you weren't blogging cuz you were too buzy *hugs* we are here for you whenever you need us... Glad you are back!

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    1. I actually was too busy to blog, after my sister left I never stopped from waking until sleeping, so at least I know I did everything possible to prevent what happened.
      Great to know I still have your support.

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  3. Maureen,
    I'm so sorry. Like CS, I thought when we didn't hear from you, that you were too busy with the new restaurant. Please don't be discouraged. You've picked yourself up before, you can do it again. We will be here to support you the whole way!

    {{{hugs}}}

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  4. Thanks Sharon " I will survive " and it looks as if I have The Foxx on board this time. but more about that later......

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  5. Hi honey - Michael told me you had posted so I'm up off the couch (have a bad cold - blechh!) to give you my words of encouragement and support. I want you to write and write and write and get it all out - it can be very cathartic to release the bad energy and make space for the good energy that we're going to send your way. Even if you don't post everything you write about it will still be a therapeutic process for you. I am intrigued and pleased by your comment about The Foxx! Perhaps this is what it took to get you both on the same page, I don't know, I'm just rambling here. It's just so good to have you back! I'm so sorry the restaurant didn't work out - having that all on you wasn't supposed to happen. BUT, the phoenix rose from the ashes and so will you! I just know it.
    Have faith, be strong and look at all of the shoulders you have to lean on. Sending you love, positive vibes, hugs and hopefully, inspiration!

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    1. Say thanks to Michael for me. I had never thought of myself as a Phoenix but I like it....
      There is si much more to this story so I will spill it out bit at a time, thanks for your enthusiastic response to my post xxx

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  6. Oh Maureen! I am so happy your back I have missed you. But I am so sorry to hear about your sister. I guess we live and learn but what a terrible way to learn. I hope your holding your sister accountable she is on the hock for 50% of the debt! Since you have been gone I moved sites I'm now blogging at www.micommoncents.com check it out!

    What ever you need we are hear for you!

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    1. Sarah great to hear from you, will post more about my sister later.....
      Off now to check out your new blog see ya xxxx

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  7. So glad you are back Maureen, we've missed you! It sounds like it's been a really stressful time ((hugs)) I'm sorry that the restaurant didn't work out; glad to hear the Foxx is on board though. Hang in there ((hugs))

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  8. Thanks Louise, nice to be back .......

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  9. Hi Maureen!!!
    So happy to see you back! You have definitely been missed :)
    So sorry the restaurant did not work out as planned. I give you much credit for trying! You will recover from this and we are here to support you and lift you up.

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    1. Lisa I am feeling like a bit of a failure just now, great to know you are still supporting me.....more to this story coming up

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  10. Sending you hugs Maureen. I thought of you often. We are all here for you.

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    1. Jolie I also thought of my blogging friends, maybe if I had come back earlier things might have been different as you are all so motivational

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  11. keep your chin up - we are all here to cheer you on!

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